What do you say when a friend is getting married to wife no 2?
Do you say Congratulations on your marriage, knowing that the no 1 is suffering emotionally?
Do you say may you live happily ever after…even though you know that the friend is bound to be in trouble…his life may be miserable…spending time here and there..silap2 mati tengah jalan…
How does wife no 1 explains to the children when papa no longer comes home on certain nights when all this while he would be spending time with the children.
When the husband dies, where will he be buried? near wife no 1 or no 2?
What about holidays, festive occasions…Imagine how many RM’s will be flying as he needs to give angpows to both sides of the families…
Does the husband takes care of expenditure of the step children from wife no 2?
In any case of emergency, which phone number do you consider the most important..wife no 1 or wife no 2?
I read about facebook being the medium to re-unite lost loves, old friends, families etc. But in this case, facebook has become a medium for cheating hearts…
Betul kalau nak berkasih tu tak perlu facebook, even just by picking up the phone pun boleh re-kindle the lovey dovey feeling that you once have for the person..tapi through facebook you start to post photos, then you imagined what life would be without the person you once loved, and you compare how it would be if you had the ex-partner beside you right now..then you reminisce about the memories you had together when you were lovers…
Ini lah punca-punca masalah yg boleh menjerumus kepada ..cinta yg beralih arah..well that’s what I think.. Betul mcm Dr Fadzillah Kamsah kata, if you have problems, confide to your closest friend of the same sex…if you confide to others of the opposite sex, serious problems are bound to arise..mula2 kaunsellor, pas tu infatuation…and the rest…well just fill in the blanks…
I can't help feeling sad and sorry to the wife, even though not that close but knowing that the husband has found cinta ke-2.....makes me wonder..is it true that once a man is financially strong he'll look for another one..or is it love that found him..if the first love is true love..what about 2nd, 3rd or 4th...
Some people say that every men wishes to have more than one love..
IF YOU ARE MARRIED, DON'T RECONNECT WITH AN OLD LOVE.
i've nothing against polygamy....but i'm not sure if i can handle it if i were in her shoes...
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Maka sebagai isteri..kita wajib bersyukur kepada Ilahi kerana suami kita masih memberi keempat-empat "quota" secara mutlak kepada diri kita.."berkahwinlah 2,3 dan empat..tetapi yang terbaik ialah SATU!"
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